Posts Tagged Money

Debts that are impacting our quality of life

Posted by Power User on Monday, 16 November, 2009

goldguy chained to debtBLUR 150x150 Debts that are impacting our quality of life Debts that are impacting our quality of life can cause grief among us.  Unless a serious problem is at steak, most people fail to contain and reduce debt or even learn how to do so.  A number of people that choose not to admit their debt problem for a long time end up regretting it.

Most people don’t want any advice at all, nor do they admit that they have any sort of problem.  Debtors often don’t think it is serious enough of a problem to seek advice.  A lot of people believe that it is solely their fault and that they should deal with the problem themselves.  Many are ashamed to admit to their family and friends that they have debt.

Those of you whose debts aren’t serious are probably yawning. You know that the main suggestion from an impartial advisor would be to budget better. Perhaps you think you can budget already?

OK then, how much income do you have spare each month, and each year? What is snowballing? How are you saving for your next holiday, for Christmas and for your next car service? You don’t know, do you? You could use some tips on budgeting.

As for those of you who are very stressed about your debts, you’re concerned that you’ll be advised to take more drastic measures, such as contacting your creditors, cutting right back on spending or even bankruptcy.

More specifically, the more debt interest you pay, the less stuff you’ll be able to buy. If you have debts that just won’t go down and you want to buy more stuff in your lifetime, you will need to seek advice.  Unemployment has hit a twelve year high and there are many people seeking help.


10 lies that got you (and keep you) in credit card debt

Posted by Power User on Friday, 6 November, 2009

moneyproblems200 10 lies that got you (and keep you) in credit card debtAlthough we don’t have credit card debt now, except for 0% APR balance transfers, there were times that we did. We never let our credit cards get completely out of control although we did build up thousands of dollars on our credit cards when I first got out of college.

We’ve learned many of the causes of this financial pain. The fact is, we can talk ourselves into using our credit cards in ways that will hurt our finances down the road.

here are 10 lies we tell ourselves that get us in credit card debt and keep us there.

It’s an emergency. Often we go into debt by convincing ourselves that we have an emergency. Certainly there are times when a true emergency arises. Medical expenses are a good example of a real crisis. But many times what we call an emergency isn’t really an emergency. Whether it’s a second car that needs repair, or even our child’s college education, we can often go without addressing what at first seems like an urgent expense. If life or liberty isn’t at stake, it’s probably not a true emergency.

We deserve it. This one has snagged us more than once. After working so hard to save money and spend wisely, sometimes we let our guard down under the guise of a reward. Perhaps you’ve had a hard week at work, and spending $150 on a fancy dinner that you can’t really afford seems like a good idea and something you’ve earned. The problem is that it’s like taking one step forward, two steps back. The “reward” just digs you deeper and deeper into debt.

We all need a break now and again. But if you are fighting credit card debt, don’t go into more debt as a reward. Find some other way to reward yourself that doesn’t make your financial problems more severe.

It’s a bargain. Bargains are great, but they shouldn’t be used as an excuse to spend more than we have. Great deals also shouldn’t be used to buy more than we need. The one thing I’ve learned is that great deals generally come and go pretty regularly. Regardless, it’s not a great deal if you spend a ton of money on credit card interest paying off the debt over months or even years.

It’s not much money. It’s so easy to spend money we don’t have if we spend it in small amounts. Here’s a factoid: Last year the Bush stimulus bill sent out stimulus payments to those taxpayers who qualified. Under the 2009 stimulus plan, payments will not be sent in lump-sum checks. Instead, those taxpayers who qualify for a stimulus payment will see their take-home pay increased each month by about $7 to $13. Why? Because we are more likely to spend an extra $10 or so each month than we are a lump-sum $400 to $800.

The same is true with “small” credit card debt. Enough small charges on the card over time can grow into a mountain of debt. If you are fighting your way out of credit card debt, there is no such thing as a small credit card charge.

The payment is small. Let’s be honest. How many have justified a purchase based on the monthly finance cost? We all do that when we buy a home, asking ourselves if we can afford the payments. But with credit cards, it can be a real problem. Because most cards calculate the monthly payment at about 2% of the outstanding balance, payments are extremely small compared with the amount owed.

For example, you can nab a $1,000 TV and pay “only” about $20 to $30 a month for it. The small credit card payments have probably caused more financial turmoil for many consumers than any other factor. Remember, the payment may be small and manageable at first, but buy enough on credit and the payments grow substantially. On top of that, you still have to pay back the borrowed amount with interest.

The card rewards make it worth it. We take advantage of many travel reward credit card offers and cash-back rewards. But if the allure of these awards is putting you deeper and deeper into debt, they just aren’t worth it. If you pay off your card each month, the rewards are great. But if you don’t, stay away from them. In fact, if the rewards are tempting you into credit card debt, get a card without rewards or just use your debit card.

Offers of 0% APR on purchases. The 0% APR and low-interest credit cards can be like a drug dealer giving away his product for free — at first. Once you’re hooked, prices go up, way up. In the case of credit cards, once the 0% APR introductory rate expires, interest rates can easily soar into the double digits. To avoid this, I’ve often turned down 0% APR deals, particularly those offered by furniture stores and other retailers. If you are going to use a 0% APR deal on purchases, make sure you can pay off the balance in full before the offer expires.

Offers of 0% APR on balance transfers. We’ve saved a ton of money with balance-transfer credit cards. We transferred home-equity debt from a home remodeling to 0% APR cards and have saved literally thousands of dollars in interest. But we also make sure to pay off the balance transfer before the 0% APR rate expires. We also make sure not to use the card for anything else while we still have a balance on the transfer deal.

Balance-transfer offers can be great, but just like 0% APR purchase offers, make sure you can pay off the debt before the 0% APR offer expires.

It’s for my business. A business credit card, particularly for small companies, can serve many important roles. Business cards can be used by employees to easily track their expenses. They can also help keep your business expenses separate from personal expenses, which is particularly important at tax time. But like all credit cards, business cards can also cause you to spend more than you should. It’s easy to justify the expense as necessary when you may be able to do without. All small-business owners have to decide for themselves, of course, just how necessary an expense is, but with business credit cards, it can be easy to spend more than you should.

I’ll pay it off after graduation. This is perhaps the most insidious credit card lie of all. Study after study shows that the outstanding credit card balance for college students increases as they near graduation. There are a lot of reasons for this, but one reason is that they convince themselves that they can handle the debt once they graduate and get a job. The problem is that they start out in the workforce already in the hole. Credit card debt of $10,000 or more is not uncommon for college graduates. Add to that school loans, and debt can be overwhelming even before they get started.

So if you are a high school or college student, avoid revolving credit card debt like the plague.


How to save money on utilities

Posted by Power User on Wednesday, 2 December, 2009

utilities 150x150 How to save money on utilitiesBy turning your thermostat down three degrees, you can save around 3% on your heating bills.  Make sure it is off when you are at work and turn it down even lower when you are sleeping to save even more money.  Shut the doors to any rooms that aren’t being used to conserve energy.  Weatherstripping doors and windows can amount to using less heat.  An insulated attic can also reduce the cost of your heating bills.  The refrigerator, hot water heater and the heating system are three of the biggest energy consumers in your home.  To improve the efficiency of your appliances, Make sure you give your furnace a tune-up once a year.  Wrapping the water heater will insulate it and cleaning the refrigerator coils twice a year will also help improve their efficiency.  It is also possible that your utility company offers a reduced rate for certain times of the day.  If your schedule allows it, timing these devices to cycle during this period could greatly reduce the amount of energy being used.  A lower water bill can be obtainable if water leaks are fixed and water saving shower heads are installed.  By placing a heavy object in the toilet tank such as a brick, you will also be conserving the amount of water used.  Filling up the dishwasher and washing machine halfway and than running it costs the average American household $700 to $900 dollars in added utility fees each year.  Do full loads of dishes and laundry. Also when drying your clothes in groups one after another, your dryer saves energy because it is already hot.  Using e-mail and calling friends and family at night and on weekends can significantly lower your long distance phone bill.  See if there is a cheaper long distance package available.

These are just a few tips to help you save money on your utility expenses.  Feel free to share any other stories, ideas or practices you go about in your home.


How to save money on groceries

Posted by Power User on Tuesday, 1 December, 2009

People who know exactly howgrocery[1] much they spend each month on groceries are twenty times less likely to be deep in debt than those who don’t know how much they have spent.  When we include dining out, vending machines and fast food into the list of food related purchases, we realize how much we are spending.  Prepackaged and ready to eat meals also end up costing a lot of money.  Eating is a necessity but there are many ways to noticeably reduce your food budget.

First of all, stop going out to eat.  Eating out is much more expensive than a meal that could have been prepared at home.  Do not buy frozen meals.  When you buy frozen food, you are spending way too much for way too little.  Try preparing your meals from scratch when you have some free time for the rest of the week.  Don’t buy meats that are already cut.  You are paying the supermarket to cut up the meat for you.  You can save a dollar per pound of meat by cutting it yourself.  You should of course make sure to compare supermarkets. One supermarkets may price items $1.00 $2.00 more or less than another supermarket.  Buy the generic brand products which are usually processed at the same plants as the name brand products.  When you buy a name brand product, much of the cost goes to the expensive of the product.  This can save you over $500.00 dollars in a year!  Buy fruits and vegetables when they are in season because the price will be significantly less.  Eating vegetarian meals once a week can save a family of four about $15.00 a week.  Use Coupons wisely. A lot of people use coupons just because they have one.


How Americans Got into a Credit-Card Mess

Posted by Power User on Monday, 30 November, 2009

debt management 150x150 How Americans Got into a Credit Card MessAmericans have a long, sordid history with borrowed money. In Collateral Damaged: The Marketing of Consumer Debt to America, Charles Geisst, a professor of finance at Manhattan College, takes us through the centuries to explain how we wound up at our most recent — and spectacular — credit bubble. TIME’s Barbara Kiviat spoke with him

You write that one of the major myths about American society is that we used to be prudent with our money and only recently did we go astray. What’s the real history?
Americans are speculative people. During and after the Civil War, for instance, there was a lot of stock market and commodities speculation — people trying to make a quick buck. But it was only when financial institutions picked up on that and provided the methods whereby you could buy now and pay later — that very simple concept — that things started to change structurally. Now Americans are more highly leveraged than they were in the past.

Which makes our most recent downturn worse?
Yes, absolutely. We’re out of proportion with our amount of personal debt. A good number of people are in debt to the point where they may not ever be able to pay their way out.

Why didn’t lenders better capitalize on our speculative bent sooner?
Our banking system was never national. In fact, it wasn’t even retail in the 19th or early 20th century. The banks that were capable of doing the most lending to individuals didn’t actually do it. We had to wait until Bank of America, for instance, got into business and a lot of the companies like Household Finance that started making consumer loans for this thing to actually warm up.

So going forward, how do we strike the right balance between the “democratization of credit” and the overextension of debt?
We have to go back to the notion of credit basics. In other words, to buy a house, you can’t borrow more than, let’s say, 2½ times your gross salary. We know the financial institutions are retrenching themselves right now. The question is, Has the consuming public learned anything from this? That’s the more difficult issue.

How do you think the new regulations for credit-card companies will change things?
Well, they’re going to tighten up some of the shoddy practices the credit-card companies have pulled off in the past. They seem to be taking notice of the GAO’s periodic reports about the credit-card companies’ practices — you know, misleading statements, using different font types, billing practices, hidden fees. It’s going to address most of those issues. My problem with it is it still doesn’t address the matter of interest rates. There’s got to be a cap, as far as I’m concerned.

You actually assign a lot of blame for our recent troubles on a lack of interest-rate caps — that is, on the absence of strict usury laws. Why?
Almost every state had usury laws in the 1920s, and they were circumvented one by one. Prohibitions against excessive interest started to disappear [South Dakota, for instance, loosened its laws in 1980], and once they did, the credit-card companies recognized a wonderful opportunity. They could charge as much as the market would bear, claiming that they had to charge more for bad credit risks. You can argue that’s the democratization of credit, but it’s in the interest of credit-card companies to keep people under the yoke. We’ve just swapped loan sharks for legitimate loan sharks.

So maybe there are some people who just shouldn’t have access to credit?
I think everyone should have access to credit in a very strict proportion to their income — not a future projection of their income, which is what we’ve been doing. It’s been, “I’m now making $50,000, but in a few years I’ll be making $150,000, so no big deal, let’s go buy an expensive house now.” This whole business of giving more credit than a person can service is not only foolish, but if you tried to do that 200 or 300 years ago, it would have been considered immoral as well. We don’t think that way anymore, but essentially it is, because that person is going to be in debt forever.

You talk about the need for a financial-products safety commission. What do you think of the proposal the Obama Administration has put out there?
In the outline form we’ve seen so far, it looks like a good idea. But as I say in the book, if the thing is created, it’s going to be barraged by new financial products from up above on Wall Street. They won’t know what hit them. So I think unless there is some sort of regulatory body that is going to play chess with Wall Street, a complimentary body that filters this stuff on the wholesale level before it becomes the consumer stuff, whoever is on that consumer-safety commission is going to get completely swamped.

A lot of your book is about the history of borrowing money. Any favorite episodes?
Well, it’s been a long road. During the Roman Empire, the first anti-usury law — and I think this says it all — was found in the Council of Nicea in the 4th century. It states that no clergyman could practice usury, so you can get a pretty good idea of what was going on then — lending to the flock. The odd part is, the Council of Nicea was also the council that confirmed the concept of the Trinity. Those are probably two of the most unlikely pieces of legislation you could find in the same piece of canon law.

Article from http://www.time.com


How Did We End Up In Debt?

Posted by Power User on Friday, 13 November, 2009

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Let’s take a look at how we have ended up so heavily in debt as a nation of consumers.

Easy credit

In the past, it was simply too easy for consumers to obtain credit.  Because credit was so easy to get, consumers figured out how to leverage their credit card rewards and balance transfer cards in order to make money. Many tried to perform credit card arbitrage by taking out cash advances and balance transfers from these cards, then investing the amounts into a rising stock market. This was one of those things you’d consider to be a “sign of the times.” Of course, things are different today, but the 2000s was a decade during which our debt ballooned due to these types of products. Subprime loans, jumbo mortgages and other forms of costly debt are inventions of our capitalistic society; these are high-risk financial tools which countless consumers have gambled with, often with dire results.

Need for instant gratification

As a society, we’re impatient. It’s ingrained in us to be able to get immediate access to the things we covet, even if we can’t really afford these things at the moment. We live in a highly consumerist society that encourages materialism and is not ashamed of excess. Have you seen just how huge the portions are served in most American restaurants? It’s all about more, more, more right now! So it’s often the case that funds that should wisely be funneled into highest interest savings account or into high yield savings are instead being used to keep up with the Joneses, a syndrome that many of us harbor, and which has caused many a household to fall into debt.

Lack of financial education

Personal finance isn’t given importance in schools. A lot of us don’t learn about finance while in school and instead are picking it up through experience and trial and error. Unfortunately, this lack of understanding and awareness about money management can make us vulnerable to making many financial mistakes, particularly those that land us in debt.

Lack of accountability

It’s too easy to procrastinate about our finances, go in denial or sweep things under the rug when we get into trouble. But also detrimental is when we can’t take responsibility for our own actions and mistakes. We blame the government or the financial industry for causing the rifts in our economy, but we’re just as guilty about causing the crisis as they are. Both lenders and borrowers contributed to the subprime lending boom, subsequent bust and credit crisis, but guess who’s getting the lion’s share of the blame?

Debt as a cultural phenomenon

In other cultures, debt is heavily frowned upon and is only gingerly used by households. But in America, debt is socially acceptable and ingrained in our culture; it carries no stigma. If bankruptcy, foreclosure, debt and being broke are things we easily accept in our culture and way of life, then these aren’t things we’d readily condemn (or worry about) until too late or until we’re forced to face the painful consequences.

When the economy blew up last year, it prompted the government to start making some changes; they’ve since introduced policies that help regulate the financial industry to some degree (e.g. credit card rules) but in many respects, it’s still pretty much “business as usual.” Instead of worrying about what the Fed or Obama is going to do next, we should focus on the things we have control over, and take responsibility for our own financial predicaments.


Banks Are Jacking Up Interest Rates, Penalties And Fees

Posted by Power User on Friday, 13 November, 2009

credit cards 150x150 Banks Are Jacking Up Interest Rates, Penalties And FeesBefore a new law of reforms becomes effective in February of 2010, Credit card companies are raising interest rates, penalties and fees. As of July, interest rates spiked an average of 20% across the board from December 2008 with some issuers raising the interest rates 30 and even 50 percent. When the Pew Health Group examined credit cards offered by the twelve largest banks, they found :

99.7 percent of bank cards allowed the issuer to raise interest rates on outstanding balances by changing the account agreement unilaterally – up from 93 percent in December 2008.

95 percent of bank cards allowed issuers to apply payments in a manner that the Federal Reserve found likely to cause substantial monetary injury to consumers.

90 percent of bank cards had penalty interest rates that could be triggered by late payments or overlimit transactions. All but 10 percent of these cards had penalty repricing terms that would qualify as “hair trigger” under Federal Reserve guidelines – triggers of one or two late payments in 12 months

99 percent of bank cards included a late fee – median $39.

80 percent of bank cards included an overlimit fee – median $39.

The median bank penalty interest rate was 28.99 percent. Most – 90 percent – penalty rate increases could continue indefinitely even if the cardholder resumes.


Debt is Common

Posted by Power User on Wednesday, 11 November, 2009

debt 150x150 Debt is CommonMillions of people all over the world are facing the problem of having too much debt.  Eliminating these debts is not an easy task. However, there are various strategies you can use to eliminate those debts and save yourself some money. The other problem is that you will need a good credit score in order to access the most practical ways of reducing your debt. For those with a poor score there are two ways to do this.

Debt consolidation and home equity loans are options you should consider.  Anyone can do this without assistance if done correctly. If not, then consult a debt management service to help you out.  these companies work to help people get out of debt by planning out realistic goals and budgets.

You can contact the creditor yourself and try to negotiate a lower fee or surcharge on your behalf if you make your payments in a timely manner. There is also debt consolidation not to be confused with debt management. Typically, debt consolidation programs are debt repayment programs this way you control the amount of money you spend and do not have to sign for a loan which you may or may not be able to pay back.

If you’ve gotten yourself into debt in a variety of ways, but feel like you could pay it off if only you had a little immediate leeway, try for debt consolidation. Debt consolidation is a service that rolls all your debts into one big package, and tries to reduce the immediate expenses involved with paying various rates and fees.

The other major choice available to you is debt settlement. While debt consolidation functions under the expectation that you’ll eventually pay it all back, settlement will ‘forgive’ a large chunk of your debt, so that you only have to pay a portion of the whole.

Another option is to file bankruptcy. By doing this you will surrender your non-tax-exempt property and the money made from that then goes to your creditors. This should really be used as a last resort because a bankruptcy can remain on your credit report for up to fourteen years.


The Story of Credit Card Hell – An American Perspective

Posted by Power User on Friday, 6 November, 2009

creditcardhell200 The Story of Credit Card Hell – An American PerspectiveYou pay your credit card off every month, but happened to miss an auto loan or an electric bill payment.  A single late payment on your credit report can trigger a rate increase.  It is called Universal Default.

0% APR is great, but if you miss a payment, it can revert to a default APR of up to 35%.  There is no going back to 0% after that.

Even when you think you made a payment on your due date, the deadline might be in the morning or afternoon, payments made by 2pm on the due date may still be considered late.

The highest fixed late fee charge is currently $39 but percentage based late fees can cost hundreds of dollars per charge depending on the balance.

Variable rates can change without notice, and even fixed rates can change with 15 days notice.  Your rates and fees can be changed for any reason at any time.

Two cycle billing will ensure your finance charges are much higher if you don’t pay your bill in full every month.

Out of the country?  Be prepared to add a 1%-3% fee to all purchases in addition to a 1% exchange rate fee.

Taking our a cash advance?  Be prepared for a high APR as well as a percentage fee.  Payments made will apply to the lowest APR first.  You will have to pay off the entire balance before paying off the high APR cash advance.

Low minimum payments may sound like a convenience, but the lower the payment, the longer you will have to pay, finance charges piling up every month.

If you transfer a balance to a new card, the limit on the new card may be changed so it’s actually lower than the balance transfer.  This results in a new card that is already maxed out.  The first time you use it, you go over your limit and fees are charged.

Once your credit starts turning south, you will get offers for cards with starting fees.  A card with a $300 limit may come loaded with a Program Fee of $96, an Annual Fee of $48, an account Set-up fee of $56, and a monthly Participation Fee of $8, but charged annualized at $96.  All of a sudden your $300 card has $296 already charged on it.  If you make a purchase over $4 you will be hit with a late fee and possible rate change.

So you have cut up your cards, great, but be prepared to be hit with an inactivity fee.

Now you are up to your eyeballs in debt.  Your cards are maxed out, the APRs are high, and the only new credit you can get is tiny and expensive!


A Lifetime of debt

Posted by Power User on Friday, 6 November, 2009

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Spread the debt around

Posted by Power User on Friday, 6 November, 2009

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Living In Credit Card Hell

Posted by Power User on Friday, 6 November, 2009

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U.S. Debt – $65 Trillion

Posted by Power User on Friday, 6 November, 2009

money200 U.S. Debt   $65 TrillionThe total liabilities of the United States government, including future social security and medicare payments that the U.S. government is already committed to pay out, now exceed 65 trillion dollars, which is more than the entire GDP of the whole world.

According to the 2008 Financial Report of the United States Government, an official United States government report, the U.S. actually had a budget deficit of 5.1 trillion dollars in 2008.

So why did the Congressional Budget Office report that the federal budget deficit was only 455 billion dollars (which is certainly a total disaster) in 2008?

The difference lies in accounting. The CBO’s figures are based on cash accounting, while the 2008 Financial Report of the United States Government is based on GAAP accounting. GAAP accounting is what is used by all the major firms on Wall Street and it is regarded as a much more accurate reflection of financial reality.

So why is there such a big difference?

Well, what the Congressional Budget Office does is some really bad accounting. When you pay social security taxes, the federal government takes that money and instead of putting it away to pay your social security benefits in the future, it takes that money and spends it however it wants.

So what about the future social security and medicare benefits that the government owes you?

There is no money there for those payments.

The government is using that money right now to make the budget look better.

That’s right, you have been conned.

And as bad as the numbers from 2008 look, they do not reflect any significant money from the monstrous financial bailouts that Congress has passed.

So 2009 is going to look MUCH worse.

Pretty picture, eh?

The reality is the the United States of America is a total financial disaster.

Already, 13 banks have already failed in 2009. All of the bailouts certainly don’t seem to be helping much yet.

But that doesn’t mean that the federal government is going to give up trying to help. It seems a new “bailout” or a new “stimulus” is being passed almost weekly now.

Instead of accepting the fact that we must adopt a lower standard of living and deal with the reality of our massive debt, the politicians are trying to crank up the debt spiral one more time.

All of this government spending will help the economy in the short term, but it will make the long term problems of the U.S. government far worse.

Who is going to buy all of this new government debt? China has doubts about who is going to buy all of America’s new debt. The reality is that the only way that the government can “bailout” anyone or pay for any “stimulus” bill is to borrow.

America borrows and borrows and borrows.

If your personal finances were like that, how do you think it would end?

Ah, you are starting to get the picture…..

The “American Dream” is becoming the “American Nightmare” and the politicians don’t have a clue.

What are you going to do when the economy collapses and everything you ever worked for starts coming apart?

It’s time for all of us to start thinking about what is truly important…..


Seniors – credit card debt

Posted by Power User on Friday, 6 November, 2009

unhappycouple200 Seniors   credit card debtHere’s a statistic that should give us all pause: The average credit card debt of seniors grew by 26% between 2005 and 2008, CreditCards.com reports. For the rest of us, the increase was a comparatively modest 3%.

Also, according to a study released in July 2009 by New York City-based Demos, a public policy group, consumers 65 and older carried $10,235 in average card debt last year. That is a lot.

that’s very troubling now that so many retirees are living on Social Security and no other savings, and face medical expenses despite government-run Medicare. The dreaded “doughnut hole” is just a drop in the bucket compared with the other potential health care-related demands on their money.

Many older folks are stretched thin. That’s true in better times, but now, because retirement savings for lots of people have shrunk, they’re turning to credit.

Medical expenses are a burden. The Demos study says, “Older households, those 65 and over, reported the highest amount of credit card debt due to medical expenses: $3,988.”
They’re victimized. Consider how vulnerable people who didn’t grow up in the computer age are to phishing and other forms of identity theft. Scammers love seniors. And then there’s all the “free” stuff that’s advertised as a way for unscrupulous companies to start billing your credit card.
What to do? Be on the lookout for signs that seniors you know are struggling. Yes, this is difficult. If you don’t have a close relationship that allows discussion of such things, you’re going to have to be very observant.

Are your parents suddenly living beyond their means?
Are their bills piling up on the kitchen table — unopened?
Are they using a credit card to purchase things they used to pay for with cash, like groceries?
How to proceed? If you can have a frank, respectful discussion, do so. If the topic would be unwelcome, enlist help from other family members or friends.


Is your debt making you sick?

Posted by Power User on Thursday, 5 November, 2009

Sick200 Is your debt making you sick?In the past year, Chad, a 38-year-old former president of a social media communications company, has gained 30 pounds, seen his hair turned gray, and admits that both his blood pressure and cholesterol have increased. The cause is none other than the economy. “The economic downturn hit us early last year when people stopped paying,” he says. “We had a mountain of uncollectible outstanding invoices.”

Similar to many Americans — eight out of 10 people, according to a recent poll by the American Psychological Association — Chad cites the economy as a significant cause of stress. He went from being an affable, easygoing guy to a hardened bill-collector who rarely laughs, he says. Along with his health, his bank account has taken a major blow: he is currently $380,000 in debt and is dealing with the fallout of failed funding on a million-dollar project.

How Your Health Can Circle the Drain

It’s no surprise that debt with little revenue can send your health plummeting alongside your credit score. After all, says New York-based clinical psychologist Deborah Serani, money is more than just dollars and cents. It offers intangible feelings of security, power, independence, and freedom. “When our financial bedrock is shaken, not only do the numbers dwindle lower, but so, too, does our ability to deal with life issues,” Serani says. “Maxed out credit cards, unpaid bills, and mounting cash flow problems shake up our world.”

According to Serani, our bodies crave predictability. When we are taken by surprise or burdens or trauma creep in, it sets our neurobiology into a “Stress Response Cycle.” “Stress becomes dangerous when it interferes with your ability to live a normal life and do everyday things,” explains Serani. Chronic stress, which can lead to heart attack, high blood pressure, stroke, impaired memory and cognition, lowered immunity defenses, agitation, and depression and lethargy can wreak havoc on your emotional and physical health, she explains. “It can be lethal.”

Sick and Tired of Being Sick and Tired

John, CEO of an Internet media and marketing company, is carrying some pretty hefty weight on his shoulders, too. Worries about his financial future and the livelihood of his employees are all but dragging him down. Despite dwindling ad revenue, he’s determined to keep his company afloat. “If I fail, I fail everyone,” he says. “I do have days where I am physically sick.”

John’s lifestyle has become so unhealthy, he says, that vacations are always about getting back, and time off is spent calculating what he can accomplish upon return, a far cry from how things used to be. “I remember stretching every last second away from the job,” says John. That meant downtime whenever possible and leisurely lunch breaks. “Now, I almost don’t have time to leave to eat. I don’t want to go.”

Red Flags and Feasible Solutions

So, how can you keep your health in check during these tough times? Quoting Shakespeare, “Nothing is either good or bad, but thinking makes it so,” says Kathy Caprino, founder and president of Ellia Communications, Inc., a work-life coaching and consulting company. Caprino, a trained psychotherapist, says, “Debt will wreak havoc on your physical and emotional health if you continue to beat yourself up over it.” Her advice is “mind over money (matters),” with three sanity-saving strategies to be taken in sequence:

Step back to gain an empowered perspective about the root cause and the behaviors, assumptions, and beliefs that got you where you are. Look at the cause of your debt or your financial situation. Get help from outside people who can see a future vision and won’t contribute to your self-blame or feed your fears.
Let go of what is holding you back – the beliefs, actions, and patterns that are keeping you stuck and feeling small. If you’re in a mound of debt from overspending, examine the behaviors that tricked you into thinking true security was somehow outside yourself, such as your high-powered (and high-paying) job. Pinpoint what you need to let go of so you can move forward.
Say “yes” to the compelling vision that you have about your next chapter in life. This can include emerging from debt, finding a new job, or developing more security in your current one. Accomplish your goals by taking action steps: seek out a financial consultant, mentor, or coach who can help you make a solid plan to turn your scenario around.

“Our physiology has a way of letting us know when things become too much to handle,” says Serani. When agitation, lethargy, and headaches occur frequently and are accompanied by feelings like despondency, helplessness, or anxiety, a stress response may be in its beginning stages. Says Serani, don’t skimp on the good stuff. “Remember to exercise, eat healthy, and involve yourself in social activities. And, if you find yourself tired and exhausted, give yourself the rest you need.”