Consumers are simply overwhelmed by the financial straits in which many find themselves in and cannot make an informed decision. Many of you have had this experience. Panic begins to set in and you say, “Help I’m in debt. What can I do?” This is when you realize that you owe too much money to too many people and you might not be able to pay it all back. Assuming that you have found the strength to start solving your debt problems, what can be done? In fact, there are many avenues for resolving an uncomfortable financial situation. How you proceed depends on the details.

The Bar associations in almost every state provide some great information to get you started. For example, good attorneys and debt counselors will tell you that, if you are in a serious debt situation, creditors and collection agencies are only able to contact in the early stages. Eventually, the law will force them to stop calling you on the telephone. From that point they will probably be contacting you by mail to let you know they are escalating the situation to include possible legal action.

This means that they may try to recoup some of the losses through either a collection agency arrangement or through a court-mandated settlement. Why is this important information? Because many times, people in debt will make quick emotional decisions that do not solve the problem at hand and which do not protect their own interests. These consumers often feel harassed and hurried by creditors and collection agencies to the point that they just want to end the phone calls and letters altogether, regardless of the consequences to their financial health. In reality though, this may be a good time to take a few deep breaths, talk with family or financial advisers you trust, and start using the tools of the debt system to work for you.

One of these tools that many people have neglected for years is the credit report. If you are in a situation that may require debt consolidation or debt management and counseling, it is imperative you have a full understanding of your credit history. Just knowing the facts contained on your credit report can be a great comfort when creditors and merchants start asking what you intend to do about your debt obligations. Credit reports are issued by credit-reporting agencies that get their information from your creditors. The reports are made available to other creditors, employers and landlords and to you upon request.

According to the California Bar Association, a “credit report includes such information as whether you pay your bills on time, have had a foreclosure, owe money as the result of a lawsuit or were convicted of a crime. Each piece of information stays in the report for a certain number of years. For example, a bankruptcy usually will be listed for 10 years.”

Debt negotiation may be another option. If you shop carefully and work with a company that makes you feel comfortable, a counselor or professional manager may be able to handle your debt stress with a good plan.

Experience has taught many of us that late-fees and back payments can be stopped when you undertake a serious debt settlement plan with a reputable specialist. Then, and only then, can you move forward with your life and get out of debt completely.

1. Pull together your paperwork

Rounding up and managing one’s paperwork is the dullest aspect of budgeting.  Without a grip on your paperwork, you have no power over your personal finances. So, get this task out of the way quickly by gathering together all of your statements, payslips and so on.

2. Set up a spreadsheet

Set up a list of all of your earnings and outgoings.

3. Learn to love your bills

Although no-one likes paying bills, they do have one useful function: they provide information about our spending habits. Thus, by keeping tabs on your bills, you can learn exactly where your money goes. However, before you can begin to bash your bills, you need to bring them together in one place.

It’s important not to overlook any of your daily, weekly, monthly and yearly spending. For example, don’t forget to track occasional bills, such as insurance policies which renew each year. Furthermore, don’t omit the little luxuries which get you through the working week. The most effective way to monitor your money is to keep a spending diary for at least a month. By recording all of your spending in a little notebook, you can build up an amazingly accurate picture of your financial habits.

4. Switch to autopilot

Budgeting is boring and it makes sense to automate as much of it as you possibly can. For example, paying bills by standing order or direct debit takes away the hassle of having to pay them as they come in. The same goes for saving.   Instead of saving whatever remains at the end of every month, it’s easier to set aside a fixed monthly amount to put away. By keeping things simple, you can switch to autopilot and thus avoid tiresome tasks.

5. Get help from others

Every one of us knows someone who has struggled financially in recent years. So, don’t be embarrassed to share your financial concerns with your loved ones, because they may be in the same boat!