If you owe a lot of money to a few credit card companies and can’t pay it off so fast, there are still some steps you could take to protect yourself.

Make an effort to pay off your credit cards as soon as possible.  Cut back on expenses and luxuries so you have extra cash to pay off your credit cards.  stop using your credit cards to live beyond your means and start paying them off.  Stop using the card and start paying it off.

Prevent them from claiming they received a late payment.  All the major credit card companies gain profits from collecting late fees, so they have a reason to trick you into paying later. They love to prey on customers who carry big balances. A common tactic is to move your due date and hope you won’t notice.  And despite the fact that their paying processing centers operate 24 hours a day, seven day a week, most credit card companies won’t post payments received after 1:00 p.m. or on weekends. 

You can sidestep this trick by always examining the due date when your statement arrives and paying your bill electronically.  Your bank probably offers an electronic bill paying service (make sure it’s free), you can also make payment directly at many credit card websites. At the time this article is being written, you can pay Citibank, MBNA, Capital One, Bank of America and hundreds of other creditors via Paypal just by clicking a button, and it costs you nothing.  All you have to do is register with Paypal, confirm your bank account and you’re set to go.  When you pay electronically, you have an electronic receipt indicating the date the payment was sent and received as proof that the payment was made on time. 

Put all billing disputes in writing.  Credit card companies want to communicate with you exclusively by telephone so they can deny receiving your call later on, if necessary. Even if you write them a letter, they will respond by phone.  If you have a dispute with them, it is very important that you don’t call them, instead, put it in writing and send it certified mail, return receipt requested and request that they communicate with you only by letter.  You need the written proof to fight them.  Those who fight them with letters often get late fees and such removed.  

Pay all of your bills on time. Some of the major credit card issuers monitor your credit report for negative activity. If they find late payment notations or written off accounts, etc., they will boost your interest rate dramatically.  Almost all of the major credit card companies use this tactic — they raise people’s rates from 7% to 28% just like that when they find a late payment or a high debt ratio on a credit report!  If you don’t want your interest rate quadrupled, keep your credit score high, pay your bills on time, and don’t accumulate too much debt.

Don’t just pay the minimum due each month.  If you have a large balance and pay only the minimum on a credit card for many months in a row, some banks will raise your interest rate significantly.  Try to pay at least $30 more than the minimum each month to avoid their wrath.  Even if you’re struggling with debt, it would be a good idea to make a few large lump sum payments at least twice a year to indicate that you do have some cash to pay down the debt — send them at least three or four times more than the minimum required.

A warning to those struggling with debt — Most debt counselors recommend that you focus on paying off one credit card at a time.  They advise you to apply all your extra cash to one credit card while paying only the minimum due on all other credit cards.  But this can have very serious consequences if those companies to whom you are paying only the minimum raise your interest rate because you have been paying only the minimum for a very long time.  If your rate is raised from 15% to 28%, it’s going to take you so much longer to pay off that credit card.  

A better alternative is to pay down all the cards at once by sending in at least $10 more than the minimum due each month, but ideally, at least $30 more than the minimum due each month on each credit card to keep your rate from being increased.  And, if you have any extra cash left over after that, you can use it to concentrate on paying off a specific credit card. 

Complain, complain, complain.  Credit card companies get away with all of the above because too few consumers complain to their state and federal elected officials.  If your senator received hundreds of letters from consumers threatening to vote him out of office in the next election if he doesn’t stop taking money from the banking industry and enact regulating legislation as soon as possible, you can be sure he would do something to keep his job and his fat salary and benefits.  Links are below.

A poll that came from AARP said that the older generation will spend around the same amount this Christmas as they did last year.

Of those 65-plus, nearly half (45 percent) say they’ll spend less than $300

“We shop every week and buy gifts all year long,” says Fowler, who retired from IBM in 1990. “We don’t wait till the season. It’s easier, and we get as good a deal as ever because we shop while the stores have sales.”

Most people seem to want to avoid racking up debt this holiday season. More than three-quarters (78 percent) say they plan to buy their gifts with cash, check or a debit card.

Fowler, who lives on Social Security and his pension income, says he always pays cash for holiday gifts. “That’s the way I’ve always been, since the 1950s,” he says. “We don’t have any credit card debt.” – AARP

From these results, there is a lesson to be learned.  We should spend less money on gifts and more time with the ones we love.  We should experience a debt free holiday every year.  We should not wait until the end of the year to shop for Christmas and we shouldn’t use credit cards.

Did you know that certain types of debt and financial obligations cannot be discharged when filing for bankruptcy?  There are debts that are exempt from bankruptcy laws and you need to pay them whether or not you file for bankruptcy protection.

One financial obligation that can’t be discharged through bankruptcy is child support.  You are required to pay for child support by court order and filing for bankruptcy does not mean that you can stop paying it.

An IRS lien is expempt from being discharged by bankruptcy. What happens with an IRS lien is that you owe income tax payments from one or multiple years. At a certain amount of money owed, the IRS will put a lien on your house or some other type of asset that you own, or in lieu of that possibility, may garnish your wages via your employer. This type of IRS lien, in addition to being exempt from a bankruptcy discharge, is also on your credit report for about 10 years as a huge blemish, which would be in addition to the blemish on your credit report from your bankruptcy filing. These types of red flags on your credit report can make it more difficult to get approved for new credit in the future.

A court order, which may have awarded an individual or company a specific amount ofmoney through a lawsuit brought against you is not a debt exempt from bankruptcy either.

If you are behind in one or more debts with your creditors, those creditors will commonly file a lawsuit against you eventually.  This takes time and most creditors are not quick to go to this extreme to collect their money but in time it will most likely happen.  If this type of lawsuit occurs before bankruptcy, it will not be discharged after bankruptcy is filed.  If you have creditors with a judgment against you, filing for bankruptcy may not do much for you.

Government loans such as federal student loans are also exempt from bankruptcy discharge.

Spending less during the holiday season does not mean you will have less fun.  Make sure you plan an affordable holiday.

Create a holiday budget.  A spending plan is a good start for a cheaper holiday season.  Don’t forget to include the cost of decorations, food and gifts into your budget.

Make a gift list and don’t go over your spending limit.  Get your gift ideas down on paper before heading out to the shop.

You don’t have to spend a lot to give a nice gift either.  Remember what your budget is while shopping.

Shop at thrift stores, yard sales and flea markets or other second hand sources for gifts.  Maybe you know someone that likes vintage jewelry or antiques and you can find these things for cheaper at a second hand shop.

Make sure you don’t end up shopping for yourself on top of the other people you are shopping for.  You will end up with less stuff and more money in the bank.

Make your own cards.  The cost of holiday cards is really expensive plus you have to pay for postage.  You can also wrap your own gifts.  In store gift wrapping sometimes increases the cost of each gift by another couple of dollars.

It’s the holiday season, the biggest shopping season of the whole year.  It’s this time that many Americans end up with thousands of dollars in credit card debt they cant afford to pay back.  Here are some reasons to avoid using your credit card while shopping for the holidays.

If you have a debt on your credit card now, you will only be adding to it.  You will spend more money with a credit card because there is no physical sign telling you to stop spending.  Try to avoid using your credit card and use some cash you have put aside for holiday shopping.  You will pay more with a credit card as well because you pay interest on balances that you carry for more than a month.  Also, if you already had a balance on your card, you won’t get a grace period.  Interest will start adding up quickly.  The New Year will come and you will be paying off debt from the holiday season.  During the holiday season, there is also a much higher risk of credit card fraud.  Leave your credit card at home and reduce the risk of someone stealing your card while shopping.  In February 2010, a credit card rule will stop credit card companies from raising rates on already existing balances.  Banks still have around 60 days once holiday shopping ends to raise your rates before the new rules take effect.  You could be paying much more than you expected.  You could be spending more than you can afford.  When holiday shopping, it is difficult to keep a tab of what you are buying.

Many people willmax out their credit cards while holiday shopping.  You are now risking going over your credit limit once the finance charges kick in.  When a balance is over 10% to 20% of your credit limit, it has a negative impact on your credit score.

Buying more gifts than you can afford will only cause trouble for you in the near future.

Do not go shopping without a budget.  Going shopping without a limit will make it very easy to charge more than you can afford.  Before leaving your house to go shopping, you should figure out exactly how much you can afford to spend.

Once a budget is made, make sure to keep up with it.  Keep all of your receipts and check your account to make sure you are not spending too much every now and than.

Many are guilty of opening a new account just to get discounts.  Plenty of retail shops try to convince their customers to sign up for the store credit cards for better discounts on purchases.  You will be risking charging more than you can afford, in return affecting your credit score.

Never let someone else go holiday shopping with your credit card.  You won’t have any idea how much they are spending and if your card borrower does not pay, you will have to have extra money to pay for their balance.

Be careful not to leave your card somewhere while shopping.  Your credit card is targeted this time of the year more than ever.  Never let your cards get out of your sight.

If you are using your credit card to buy gifts because you don’t have cash chances are you can’t really afford the gifts anyway. If you don’t have money for gifts, don’t resort to credit. Instead, consider regifting items you’ve received or give homemade gifts.

Charging gifts for yourself because you “deserve” them.  It can be hard walking around the stores for weeks without getting anything for yourself. You’re going to see things you want to buy, but practice some self-discipline. Remember that while you’re out getting gifts for others, there are people out buying gifts for you.

Ignoring your post-holiday billing statement.  If you kept track of how much you spent, you can already guess that your first credit card billing statement will be higher than normal. Facing it sooner rather than later will help you get rid of that high balance sooner rather than later.

By turning your thermostat down three degrees, you can save around 3% on your heating bills.  Make sure it is off when you are at work and turn it down even lower when you are sleeping to save even more money.  Shut the doors to any rooms that aren’t being used to conserve energy.  Weatherstripping doors and windows can amount to using less heat.  An insulated attic can also reduce the cost of your heating bills.  The refrigerator, hot water heater and the heating system are three of the biggest energy consumers in your home.  To improve the efficiency of your appliances, Make sure you give your furnace a tune-up once a year.  Wrapping the water heater will insulate it and cleaning the refrigerator coils twice a year will also help improve their efficiency.  It is also possible that your utility company offers a reduced rate for certain times of the day.  If your schedule allows it, timing these devices to cycle during this period could greatly reduce the amount of energy being used.  A lower water bill can be obtainable if water leaks are fixed and water saving shower heads are installed.  By placing a heavy object in the toilet tank such as a brick, you will also be conserving the amount of water used.  Filling up the dishwasher and washing machine halfway and than running it costs the average American household $700 to $900 dollars in added utility fees each year.  Do full loads of dishes and laundry. Also when drying your clothes in groups one after another, your dryer saves energy because it is already hot.  Using e-mail and calling friends and family at night and on weekends can significantly lower your long distance phone bill.  See if there is a cheaper long distance package available.

These are just a few tips to help you save money on your utility expenses.  Feel free to share any other stories, ideas or practices you go about in your home.

Did you know that when you buy a new car, the value of the car immediately depreciates when you get it home? By buying a car that is one year old, you will be paying close to what the car is actually worth. Most cars are worth half their value within a two year period. Buying a car with a high residual value may allow you to sell or trade it in for more. A quick google search can help you find your cars residual value. Be cautious and check how much the vehicle costs to insure, even different models have different insurance rates. Maintaining your vehicle for around $50 can save you about $800 a year in repairs. Check your vehicles manual and follow its recommended maintenance schedule. Learning how to change your own oil, antifreeze and filters will save you even more money. Washing your own car can save you as much as $30 a month. Lastly, if you have things in your trunk or backseat, take them out. Items in your trunk or backseat add to the cost of fuel it takes to run your vehicle.

Help share your stories on how you save money on transportation costs. You never realize how often you might just say “why didn’t I think of that?”

People who know exactly how much they spend each month on groceries are twenty times less likely to be deep in debt than those who don’t know how much they have spent.  When we include dining out, vending machines and fast food into the list of food related purchases, we realize how much we are spending.  Prepackaged and ready to eat meals also end up costing a lot of money.  Eating is a necessity but there are many ways to noticeably reduce your food budget.

First of all, stop going out to eat.  Eating out is much more expensive than a meal that could have been prepared at home.  Do not buy frozen meals.  When you buy frozen food, you are spending way too much for way too little.  Try preparing your meals from scratch when you have some free time for the rest of the week.  Don’t buy meats that are already cut.  You are paying the supermarket to cut up the meat for you.  You can save a dollar per pound of meat by cutting it yourself.  You should of course make sure to compare supermarkets. One supermarkets may price items $1.00 $2.00 more or less than another supermarket.  Buy the generic brand products which are usually processed at the same plants as the name brand products.  When you buy a name brand product, much of the cost goes to the expensive of the product.  This can save you over $500.00 dollars in a year!  Buy fruits and vegetables when they are in season because the price will be significantly less.  Eating vegetarian meals once a week can save a family of four about $15.00 a week.  Use Coupons wisely. A lot of people use coupons just because they have one.

The longer you leave a debt problem the worse it gets and by facing your debts immediately, you’ll be out of your debt problem a whole lot sooner. There is a solution for everyone.  Here are a number of basic tips to get you started

Pay your priority debts first

Priority debts include council tax, TV license, fines, rent, mortgage, utilities bills, hire-purchase agreements, taxes and child maintenance.

Unsecured loans and credit cards are not priorities, so if you must default on any debt repayments then choose these. The fact is that they’re at the bottom of the pile when it comes to repaying debts, which is why they’re often the most aggressive about chasing you.

Be strong

You don’t have to take harassment from creditors. You are well protected in law. If you’re harassed, let them know that it is a criminal offence to demand repayment in a way that causes you or your family fear, distress or humiliation under Section 2 of the Protection from Harassment Act 1997. You can also report them to the Office of Fair Trading under Section 40 of the Administration of Justice Act 1970. Put this in writing.

Tell your friends you’re cutting back

Telling your friends about debts can be very hard, but it needn’t be. Most people have debts, and most have more than they let on. But if admitting debts is a step too far, you can still at least say that you need to cut right back on your entertainment budget. You can use any excuse: redundancy concerns, an unexpected bill, saving for a deposit on a house (or another house) or that you want to be able to save money to take advantage of low share prices.

Contact your creditors immediately

Always call your creditors before things go wrong, and before they contact you. If you promise to call them, call them on time, even if you have to tell them that you can’t afford to pay what you thought

Always attend court hearings

Remember that the law is there to protect you as well as your creditors. If you can’t afford to pay more than $1 per month then no judge will make you do so. You must be able to live, and you must be able to have some money for a little fun, too. Even judges recognize this!

Be totally truthful at all times

Always say what you really can afford. Don’t exaggerate or understate. It is in your interests to tell the truth to your creditors and to the court.

Millions of solutions to debt

There are an unbelievably high number of solutions to dealing with debt, but all most people think of is to consolidate, which is often a poor choice for them. If you’re unable to reduce your debts each month, you should seek help on the millions of ways to tackle your debts, and get a plan that is tailored specifically for you.

Stop using your credit and debit cards immediately. Also stop taking other loans, either from banks or finance companies or friends or family. Stop getting into more debt.

SAVE! The most important step you can take, in the beginning, is to start a small savings account if you haven’t already. Begin depositing into it regularly, at least $100 per paycheck if you can. If you can’t find $100 then see the next step for how. Make it an automatic deposit, the first bill you pay each payday, because it is the most important! A savings account will help you smooth out your finances — when an emergency comes up, like your car breaking down or someone having to go to the hospital, you won’t be thrown back into debt. You will have some cash to pay for that emergency, and you can use your regular paycheck for regular expenses.

Discretionary spending. If you can’t find $100-200 to save per paycheck, then you need to cut some things from your spending. This is where tracking your spending comes in handy, but even if you don’t, you know some of the extras you spend on — cigarettes, coffee, snacks, candy, desserts, eating out, magazines, shopping for clothes or gadgets or toys or shoes, books, going out … these are just a few of the examples. I’m not saying you need to cut everything out, but if you can cut a few of them, or maybe just one at a time, that can add up. Then, take the money you didn’t spend on those discretionary items, and put that amount into savings each payday. Increase this over time.

Start a debt snowball. If you haven’t heard about debt snowballs, they’re simple. List out your debts and arrange them in order from smallest balance at the top to largest at the bottom. Then focus on the debt at the top, putting as much as you can into it, even if it’s just $40-50 extra (more would be better). When that amount is paid off, celebrate! Then take the total amount you were paying (say $70 minimum payment plus the $50 extra for a total of $120) and add that to the minimum payment of the next largest debt. Continue this process, with your extra amount snowballing as you go along, until you pay off all your debts. This could take several years, but it’s a very rewarding process, and very necessary.

Make a budget. I know, it’s a dreaded word for most of us. But it’s not that hard, and if you set it up right, it’s fairly simple. I recommend using a simple spreadsheet. List all your regular expenses (rent, car, utilities, internet, etc.) and their amounts, and then your variable expenses (groceries, gas, eating out, etc.), and then your irregular expenses (things like car maintenance or medical that might not come up every month, but break them into estimated monthly expenses — if you spend $600 a year on car maintenance, budget a $50 monthly expense). Now match that up against your income. The expenses should be less.

Automate your bills. Try to get your bills to be paid through automatic deduction. For those that can’t, use your banks online check system to make regular automatic payments. This way, all of your regular expenses in your budget are taken care of. Make sure that your savings is done the same way – automatic deduction.

Save for your irregular expenses. Some call it a freedom account but the key to ensuring that you have smooth finances and that you stick to your budget is to take into account all your irregular expenses, such as insurance, car maintenance or repairs, gifts (think Christmas!), medical and other such things. List them out, estimate your annual spending, and begin saving for them each month. Again, if you spend $600 on car repairs, budget $50 a month for that expense, and put that amount in savings. You could set up different accounts for each expense in an online bank or put it all in one account and use Money or Quicken or a spreadsheet to keep track of each. Then, and here’s the key, when these expenses come up, use that money for those expenses! That way, you can use your regular budget for the stuff it’s meant for, not for these “unexpected” expenses.

Use the envelope system for your variable expenses such as food and gas. This is optional, but it’s a good tip. I’ve been using it myself, and it works like a charm. Let’s say you set aside three amounts in your budget each payday — one for gas, one for groceries, one for eating out. Withdraw those amounts on payday, and put them in three separate envelopes. That way, you can easily track how much you have left for each of these expenses, and when you run out of money, you know it immediately. You don’t overspend in these categories. If you regularly run out too fast, you may need to rethink your budget.

Start thinking and planning your goals. When do you want to retire? How often do you want to travel? When do you want to buy that dream house? Do you want to save for your kids’ college education? Think about what you want in life, and start planning to save for them, especially once you’ve done all the above.

Impulse spending is a common problem that many people have. The first step in fixing this problem is to monitor your urges for about two weeks. Keeping a small notebook in your pocket and using it to tally every time an urge comes along to buy something can be very useful. Even if you decide not to purchase the item, it would be a good idea to keep track of the urges. The reason being is that these urges are commonly in our subconscious. If we record every time we have an urge to buy something, it will be our first step toward awareness which will allow us to take more control over our spending. After a month, we should revisit the list of items we were going to buy impulsively and see how many of those items we actually still want. If we have the money after that time period and still want the item, it is ok to purchase it now rather than on first impulse. It is a good idea to avoid shopping areas and malls because we will most likely make a purchase in this sort of an atmosphere. If shopping is a must, it would be a good idea to carry a list of what you need and stick to the list. It’s never a bad idea to go somewhere that impulse buying would not be as likely such as the park or the beach. Last but not least, when the urge hits, take a deep breath, become aware of the urge and take a drink of water. A quick break can actually help us overcome our urges.

1. Pull together your paperwork

Rounding up and managing one’s paperwork is the dullest aspect of budgeting.  Without a grip on your paperwork, you have no power over your personal finances. So, get this task out of the way quickly by gathering together all of your statements, payslips and so on.

2. Set up a spreadsheet

Set up a list of all of your earnings and outgoings.

3. Learn to love your bills

Although no-one likes paying bills, they do have one useful function: they provide information about our spending habits. Thus, by keeping tabs on your bills, you can learn exactly where your money goes. However, before you can begin to bash your bills, you need to bring them together in one place.

It’s important not to overlook any of your daily, weekly, monthly and yearly spending. For example, don’t forget to track occasional bills, such as insurance policies which renew each year. Furthermore, don’t omit the little luxuries which get you through the working week. The most effective way to monitor your money is to keep a spending diary for at least a month. By recording all of your spending in a little notebook, you can build up an amazingly accurate picture of your financial habits.

4. Switch to autopilot

Budgeting is boring and it makes sense to automate as much of it as you possibly can. For example, paying bills by standing order or direct debit takes away the hassle of having to pay them as they come in. The same goes for saving.   Instead of saving whatever remains at the end of every month, it’s easier to set aside a fixed monthly amount to put away. By keeping things simple, you can switch to autopilot and thus avoid tiresome tasks.

5. Get help from others

Every one of us knows someone who has struggled financially in recent years. So, don’t be embarrassed to share your financial concerns with your loved ones, because they may be in the same boat!

Let’s take a look at how we have ended up so heavily in debt as a nation of consumers.

Easy credit

In the past, it was simply too easy for consumers to obtain credit.  Because credit was so easy to get, consumers figured out how to leverage their credit card rewards and balance transfer cards in order to make money. Many tried to perform credit card arbitrage by taking out cash advances and balance transfers from these cards, then investing the amounts into a rising stock market. This was one of those things you’d consider to be a “sign of the times.” Of course, things are different today, but the 2000s was a decade during which our debt ballooned due to these types of products. Subprime loans, jumbo mortgages and other forms of costly debt are inventions of our capitalistic society; these are high-risk financial tools which countless consumers have gambled with, often with dire results.

Need for instant gratification

As a society, we’re impatient. It’s ingrained in us to be able to get immediate access to the things we covet, even if we can’t really afford these things at the moment. We live in a highly consumerist society that encourages materialism and is not ashamed of excess. Have you seen just how huge the portions are served in most American restaurants? It’s all about more, more, more right now! So it’s often the case that funds that should wisely be funneled into highest interest savings account or into high yield savings are instead being used to keep up with the Joneses, a syndrome that many of us harbor, and which has caused many a household to fall into debt.

Lack of financial education

Personal finance isn’t given importance in schools. A lot of us don’t learn about finance while in school and instead are picking it up through experience and trial and error. Unfortunately, this lack of understanding and awareness about money management can make us vulnerable to making many financial mistakes, particularly those that land us in debt.

Lack of accountability

It’s too easy to procrastinate about our finances, go in denial or sweep things under the rug when we get into trouble. But also detrimental is when we can’t take responsibility for our own actions and mistakes. We blame the government or the financial industry for causing the rifts in our economy, but we’re just as guilty about causing the crisis as they are. Both lenders and borrowers contributed to the subprime lending boom, subsequent bust and credit crisis, but guess who’s getting the lion’s share of the blame?

Debt as a cultural phenomenon

In other cultures, debt is heavily frowned upon and is only gingerly used by households. But in America, debt is socially acceptable and ingrained in our culture; it carries no stigma. If bankruptcy, foreclosure, debt and being broke are things we easily accept in our culture and way of life, then these aren’t things we’d readily condemn (or worry about) until too late or until we’re forced to face the painful consequences.

When the economy blew up last year, it prompted the government to start making some changes; they’ve since introduced policies that help regulate the financial industry to some degree (e.g. credit card rules) but in many respects, it’s still pretty much “business as usual.” Instead of worrying about what the Fed or Obama is going to do next, we should focus on the things we have control over, and take responsibility for our own financial predicaments.